Don't think i can... =(

A few days ago I went to a friend's wedding. There was a different feeling from that wedding compared to the ones I've attended before. It wasn't gloomy to some but it is to those who are aware of everything behind it. Back in 2000, when this bride was 16 (form 4), she was head over heals for this one guy; her classmate. She went against all odds to make sure that he feels the same way about her. And yes! They started seeing each other after that. I would have to say it was a serious relationship as there families were introduced to each other and what not. It was until early last year that the father of this bride made up his mind; disapproving his daughter's 7-year relationship with her boyfriend. He didn't lay out the reasons why, all he wanted was for her to cut all ties with this guy and one of the ways of doing so is by introducing her to another guy whom he thinks suits her best. Because her father; the one who has the ultimate say in the family, who started the chaos, everyone in her family went against her. And this wedding of hers that I attended, is between her and the man of her family's choice. This question was asked to her, "Eh...ko tak ajak Ahmad (bukan nama sebenar) datang ke hari ni?", her answer, "Aku tak bagitau die aku kawin harini. Aku taknak jadi runaway bride bila aku tengok dia nanti.".Huwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!

I'm just a little disturbed by how this kind of drama still exist now. She's such a strong person to go through all these. How can her father make her live with a person who's not of her own choice? That'd be like 20 years or so where she'd be spending each and every second of her life with him. Gaaaahhhhhhh~ I don't know if I can do that. Not being with someone whom I want to be with is just unimaginable. But anyway, I respect her for being able to hold in her thoughts and feelings just to make sure that her father is happy. Bebeh, I know you fought until the end to be with him. But I guess it was just not meant to be. Please be happy with your new life, and accept this new person as a part of you with open hearts. I pray may Allah shower your marriage with his unconditional love and care. Beranak cepat!! hee.. =D